Some excerpts from the Matt Walsh blog “to the quiet boring girl in class”,(recommended by my good friend Nichole Criss, …thanks Nichole)
Introvert
Shyness and introversion aren’t a packaged deal.
Being shy means you have social anxiety.
Being introverted means you are energized by being alone, or in small groups, where you can hear those wonderful thoughts spinning around in your head.
You prefer intimate and meaningful communication over small talk. You’re more likely to have a limited collection of loyal friends than a large gaggle of friendly acquaintances.
Sound familiar?
That’s all it means to be an introvert.
Introversion is not to be overcome. Please don’t try. I beg you. Don’t try. I mean, where would we be if societies in the past had employed our modern strategy of treating introversion as a character defect?
I can tell you we might not have been blessed with the historical contributions of noted introverts like Einstein, Newton, Yeats, Proust, Shakespeare, Orwell, Edison, Plato, Mother Teresa, and Ghandi. In fact, many (if not most) of humanity’s greatest inventors, engineers, creators, thinkers, writers, artists and revolutionaries were and are introverts.
It isn’t a disease or a weakness. It’s a strength. Seriously, a strength. Your mind works differently, you see the world differently, you interact differently, and that is a magnificent thing. Your differences make you indispensable.
Let them call you quiet. Pretty soon, you’ll be climbing mountains and they’ll still be down at the base, talking about the weather.
I have come to accept I am an introvert. Thanks for reading today.
You.
Explained.
Defined.
Thanks for helping the rest of us understand the best of you.
Thanks for helping me understand myself a little more! Wow.
Wow that is so good. It is about time someone said that our personalities were given by God to give us a well rounded world. Nice. I am an extrovert and always wished I could be more gentle and sweet (which I am anyway, LOL) and not so outspoken. It has actually come with age. I used to be so shy I couldn’t talk to anyone, now in my old age I am speaking to strangers.
I have also learned when to speak and when to swallow those words. 🙂
Thanks for the blog.
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Excellent…
Thanks! I thought I was just weird…
Very Very Good!!
I needed to read this. 🙂 Thank you.
Excellent. And such am I.
I’m way behind on my blog reading…so I just read this today. Thanks for posting it. After a trying month of feeling like a fish out of water amidst a massive group of extroverts this post was much needed.
Wow! for sooo long the enemy had me thinking I wasn’t a people person. I’d pray and ask God to change me for the sake of others, make me to what they thought I should be. I have always been relatively introverted. I never knew it was actually a blessing. Yes, I do see things differently, yes I interact differently, and yes I prefer meaningful conversation than fruitless bable. No I’m not above anything, but I’d rather have those things that are needful for my walk with God. Thank you Bro. Bow for this post.
Thanks for posting….ease my insecurity of being such one! God is good that He accepts us for what we are!