A Vanishing Species: The Apostolic Woman of 2012
Why is the Apostolic woman a vanishing species? Loss of habitat is one cause of a vanishing specie. Another cause is a shrinking population, hence repopulation shrinks at a commensurate rate. As time moves on there are fewer and fewer of the species alive to reproduce.
Our habitat is diminishing. Our world is reducing our Apostolic living space. There are fewer and fewer places where we find wholesome environment.
Morality and sexual prominence in every way, like magazines, advertising, and entertainment, encroach on our living space more each day. Emphasis is daily placed on a woman’s body and appearance rather than on her spirit and demeanor. This is tragic because the world then sees women as a possession or a thing, something to be used, rather than her God given and elevated place of equality in God’s providence.
In the Bible women were honored, respected and cherished.
Proverbs 18:22 (KJV)
22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
Many things have contributed to this denigration of women. Hollywood and Women’s movement are two things that have drastically affected our Apostolic lifestyle.
Women have played an immensely important role in the Bible. Names like Deborah, and Sarah, and Rachel, Job’s wife, Mary, Dorcas, Lydia, Eunice, all speak of Godly contributions to what we are today as an Apostolic.
2 Timothy 1:5 (KJV)
5 When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.
What makes a woman truly Apostolic?
First of all she must be of the faith. The new birth is a must.
She must second of all have an absolute commitment to live by the Word of God. She cannot accept the changing scenery of society as her way of life. Modern ideas, and modern rationale cannot be her measure of life. She has to have an old fashioned commitment to the Bible. If the Bible teaches it, then she embraces it without question.
Thirdly she must manifest a life defined by God and not by contemporary mores. (An example of this is her home life and her interaction with her husband).
Let’s discuss the characteristics of an Apostolic Woman.
1. She is not ashamed of her life! Everything from her demeanor to her appearance is guided by the Word and not by any other source.
2. She manifests to the world the spirit of Christ in several ways. (Ex: Shamefacedness)
3. She maintains her relationship with Jesus Christ at home, at church, and in the market place of the world.
4. She understands her role in God and is unwilling to be pushed into any role that violates her commitment to her Lord and savior.
5. She is not ashamed of her place in God’s kingdom. In fact she values it as a role only she can play! (As a wife, a mother, a saint of God, a prayer warrior).
6. She is unwilling to be conformed to this world. Her desire is to please God, not to “fit in” with her society.
7. She recognizes and embraces that God placed her under the protection of a head in her husband and her pastor. She sees this as protection and not bondage. Her husband and her pastor protect her and provide for her. This frees her to pursue the things God designed her for. She is free to be the woman God created her to be.
8. She is content with the beauty that God gave her. She desires to be beautiful and acceptable in the eyes of God, not in the eyes of this world. Her heart says God, what is it that you think is beautiful? She then proceeds to seek and achieve that.
Battles an Apostolic woman must contend with.
The workplace has become a battleground for women. The glass ceiling concept, the salary discrepancy issue, and others have created an antagonistic environment for women in general. Then the fallout of over reacting men who shout equal production for equal pay then muddies the water even more.
So what happens is the role of a woman is now so opaque that we cannot even raise up Godly young women!
The church is the representative of God in the earth. The church is likened to a bride. We will be God’s wife in the future. What attributes does God seek in us now?
Prayer
Humility
Honesty
Helpful
Godly
My prayer is that the Apostolic women of 2012 can have a wholesome self image of their self as they live in a world that gives them less and less of a chance to show their faith. That our ladies can have a true revelation on the inward and outward person of who an Apostolic lady is in 2012.
Proverbs 31:10-31 (MSG)
10 A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.
11 Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it.
12 Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.
13 She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing.
14 She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises.
15 She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day.
16 She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden.
17 First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
18 She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
19 She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking.
20 She’s quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor.
21 She doesn’t worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.
22 She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
23 Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers.
24 She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.
25 Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
26 When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly.
27 She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive.
28 Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise:
29 “Many women have done wonderful things, but you’ve outclassed them all!”
30 Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-GOD.
31 Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!
What a teaching. may the lord bless you. We need this teaching in Africa.
please make a trip to kenya and teach this truth. may the lord bless you.
Brother Bow – thank you for such an awesome reminder of our roles as Apostolic Women!
My Friend,
As always… so timely, fitting and true. I truly appreciate your insights and willingness to share.
Makes me grateful to be married to a surviving member of this endangered species. She is a treasure.
Thanks for the reminder.
God’s best to you,
Casey
Bro. Bow…..
Thank You very much. I so appreciated it. This has been a real burden of mine, as of late. Help us to return to the Word!!
My family loves and appreciates you so very much.
In His service,
Lisa
We must continue to be able to have the courage to preach the identity of the church. So many hierlings are trading the truth for wordly wealth and the persuit of a mega church..Thiough we are small to the world, but within we are mighty. We must be the image of Messiah and do the works that he has predestined us to do. Let us not fall assleep in this final hour. Thank you for the prophecy Brother Bow.
Bro. Bow,
Thank you! A friend had told me about this post. This is a wonderful reminder of what He wants us to be. Let us never forget! God bless you for sharing.
Thank you Bro Bow for such wonderful and timely comments. May our God smile upom your day.
Mervi
Thank you for the wonderful reminder! God bless you for taking the time to share your thoughts.
Bro Bow,
I enjoy reading your blogs ! Along with the speaking ability God has given you , He has given you also good thoughts and writing ability . Keep up the good work or labor of love as we call it !
Bro. Bow, I sincerely enjoyed your post. Thank you for your ministry. I will never forget the revivals you preached in Glendale, Az.
Bro. Bow, I sincerely enjoyed your post. I appreciate your ministry. I will never forget the wonderful revivals you preached in Glendale, Az. Thank you.
“The workplace has become a battleground for women. The glass ceiling concept, the salary discrepancy issue, and others have created an antagonistic environment for women in general. Then the fallout of over reacting men who shout equal production for equal pay then muddies the water even more.”
As a divorced mom (my husband left the faith and abandoned his family), the salary discrepancies and other inequalities in the workplace are harming my ability to provide for my son. The only reason the feminist movement (which I agree has ungodly, militant extremists) has been so necessary is because “good” men have not stood for the rights of women as human beings of equal value for thousands of years.
The virtuous woman is all the qualities you mentioned, but she is also strong and bold. In Hebrew thought, a person’s name describes their essence or being. The “helpmeet” of Genesis comes from a word that is only ever used of God rescuing Israel in times of trouble and has the connotation of a fellow warrior. The name we translate as “Mary” or “Miriam” means stubborn or even rebellious. There are at least 3 references to the virtuous woman’s strength in Proverbs 31. It never lists humility as one of her claims to femininity, but she is wise and kind. Her husband trusts her decisions in the home and in business and publicly praises her.
Instead of focusing on one gender portraying humility, you should instruct all believers to behave in that manner. It is not only for women, but men as well. I caution you to be careful how you preach this delicate subject as many men have twisted scripture to excuse abuse of power over the women they vowed to cherish.
That is the best thing I’ve read concerning this topic. The best.
J Coleman says:
June 7, 2013 at 7:20
I really enjoyed your teaching on this topic “The Vanishing Species” you are
right. I am a born again Apostolic Woman according to Acts 2:38. I will always practice my faith love and loyalty for the word of God. I have been
encouraged through your teaching today. Women and men need to be reminded that we must contend for the faith and teachings we have been taught and not let the modern world change our ways and trust in the Lord.
Their are so many divorces in the world because, they have left their first
love “the almighty God”! We must return back to the house of the Lord and find strength to overcome family problem. Our children need a Christian foundation to make it in this society we have today. We need more praying men and women. I have been happily married for 19yrs plus the secret is praying and love covers a multitude of sins, you must keep forgiving even when it hurts. Look at all the sins we have committed yet the Lord died for us because, he loves us so much. So, never throw in the towel on your love ones. Keep up the good teaching Ken Bow God Bless
Wonderfully stated Sis. Coleman.
Marvelous, brother. I know this is an old title, but it still rings true today, perhaps more so now than when it was written. My wife and I were just speaking about it tonight: the role of the apostolic woman and her family, and we 100% agree with your words. Amen, brother! We, as apostolics, must stand ever firm in this world of infirmities.
I am torn by what you say. It is true we are vanishing. My perplexity is this: How can we vanish if there is a requirement? If there are no Apostolic Men needing/wanting/requiring an Apostolic Woman, then yes, the Apostolic Woman will continue vanishing. A woman saved or not will become what appeals to her spouse; believe it or not, we take our cues from you. If you fail to praise us for our natural beauty and godly attributes you weaken our resolve. We need to know our Apostolic Men find the Apostolic Woman beautiful, desired and cherished above all others.
Let me add to my previous comment. Knowing what God requires in an Apostolic Woman will keep a true “Apostolic Woman” faithful to His Word for her life. We will remain steadfast and unmovable whether God gives us a “true” Apostolic Man or not.